“Eid is a bittersweet farewell to Ramadan, the month of mercy, discipline, and soul-deep transformation. You wish this version of humanity lasted all year. But then, Eid arrives, reminding you that you’re ready to live what you’ve learned, even if you don’t feel ready yet.

It’s a whirlwind, sleep deprivation from late-night worship, last-minute shopping, and the chaos of preparing for guests. Yet, nothing beats the buzz of Eid morning. The whole house wakes up (yes, even the cousin who sleeps at sunrise). The scent of perfume and sheer khurma fills the air, and that one relative is, as always, running late.

Then comes Eid Salah, standing shoulder to shoulder with the community, exchanging smiles, and feeling that unexplainable joy in every embrace.

Back home, the real adventure begins, Eidi negotiations, food comas, and, of course, the sheer khurma tour.

Somehow, every house makes it differently, some extra creamy, some packed with nuts, and some so sweet it borders on “salty.”

Eid is all about giving-starting with Zakat al-Fitr, which isn’t just charity but a purification of wealth, bringing more barakah (blessings). It’s a beautiful reminder that generosity isn’t optional, it’s essential. At the Eidgah, kids in tiny thobes and scarves hand out chocolates, elders distribute sweets, and some share knowledge.

Running late, I skipped chocolates and handed out chits with short, positive reminders. Sometimes, a few words bring unexpected joy. As a child, Eid was memorable.

Applying Mehendi was special too, there weren’t as many professional artists back then, so our aunts or grandmothers would apply it for us. My father still puts mehendi, and that small tradition makes Eid feel just as special as it did back then.

Now, Eid comes with more responsibilities, but the happiness remains the same. Eid reminds us to share what we have, look out for one another, and spread warmth beyond our homes! No matter how life changes, these values keep us connected.”

• Sumaiya Afreen