“Growing up in a small town in Mahabubnagar, I always dreamed of independence. But, like many girls, I knew that marriage and starting something on our own were the expected paths. I didn’t resist, but I never gave up on my dream to pursue my education until class 10 back then. Life took its course, and I got married to a hardworking daily wage farmer. We had two beautiful children, and our family was supportive. However, fate had other plans. We faced major losses in agriculture due to incessant rains, and the pandemic hit us hard. With no choice but to start anew, we left our village. My husband works as an auto rickshaw driver and I started a small fruit business on the outskirts of Hyderabad. We rented a house, invested in a sugarcane machine, and worked tirelessly to sell seasonal fruits and corn to highway commuters.
But, our daily earnings depend on the climate, and the seasons pose a significant challenge. Some days, the scorching sun or heavy rains make it impossible to sell our produce, leaving us with minimal income. The uncertainty is a struggle, but we’ve learned to adapt and find ways to manage.
Today, both my son and daughter are pursuing engineering. I’m proud to say that we’ve been able to provide them with a good education, and they’re excelling in their studies. My husband’s support has been invaluable, and I feel fortunate to have him by my side. Together, we’ve guided our children through their academic journey. But, I often wonder why society still expects rural women to prioritize domestic duties over their own aspirations. Why are we not encouraged to pursue our passions and start our own businesses? This mindset needs to change. Women are equally skilled and capable, and it’s time we’re given the opportunity to shine… and I’m grateful to be living a life that’s proof of that.”